QUESTION: Though I retired several years ago, I am still well and active.
I feel much the same as I did 10 years ago, and still want to experience life to its fullest.
After I retired, my wife and I moved to this community, where we felt we could make new friends of our own age and experience.
But there are some really strange ideas about sex floating around this place, and they are making me question myself and my feelings.
Would you please discuss what sexual activity is normal for a man my age (72)? There is more than one couple waiting for your answer to this very important question.
ANSWER: More people than you would ever imagine are interested in your problem, as my mail is always full of questions that speak to sexuality in people of your age.
There are many changes that occur with the aging process that affect an individual's outlook and personal perceptions on sexual activity.
The testicles actually become smaller, their sperm count is lower, erections become less firm, and the desire for sex may come less frequently. As important as the physical changes are the mental and psychological ones, and the feelings that are important to the sense of fulfillment and satisfaction.
In this way each of us is unique, and bring to our lives a complex variety of factors that create a variety of motivations and needs. You are apparently a robust 72, and your desires to continue in the manner of a younger man are not only understandable and commendable, but are normal for you.
By the same token, a description of normal would be different for someone suffering from a chronic disease, such as diabetes, for the abilities and desires would be determined by the state and progression of their disease. Be thankful for your vigor, live your life in your own personal way, and stop worrying about definitions of normal.
The material contained here is "FOR INFORMATION ONLY" and should not replace the counsel and advice of your personal physician.
Promptly consulting your doctor is the best path to a quick and successful resolution of any medical problem.
